Sex Work Abbreviations​

A

Anal play – refers to any kind of external play or penetration of the anus, either by use of finger, tongue, sex toys, or penis

Anal sex – penetration of the penis inside the anus, also referred to as greek

ATM – ass to mouth. Involves acts such as giving oral sex immediately after receiving anal sex, or putting a finger or a vibrator in one’s mouth immediately after anal penetration

B

Bi twin –  a double booking with two bisexual escorts

BJ –  blow job, oral sex

BBBJ – bare back blow job. Giving unprotected oral sex to a man.

BBBJTC – bare back blow job to completion

BBW – big beautiful woman. A woman who is Rubenesque, voluptuous, curvy.

BLS – balls licking and sucking

B & D – bondage & discipline

BDSM – bondage domination sadomasochism

Bondage – sexual act that involves the tying up or restraining of one partner

Brazilian – a form of bikini wax that removes the hair from the front, middle and rear of a woman’s pubic area. A “landing strip” is sometimes left at the front, others opt to have the hair completely removed

BS – body slide. An escort seductively slides her naked body over yours

C

CBT – cock and ball torture – A BDSM sexual activity involving torture or pain affliction of the male genitals

CD – cross dressing – a man who derives pleasure from dressing in clothes appropriate to the opposite sex

CIM – cum in mouth – to ejaculate in the mouth

CIMWS – cum in mouth with swallow. to ejaculate in the mouth and swallow the fluid

CBJ – covered blow job, protected oral sex with a condom

COB – cum on body. To ejaculate on a person’s body

COF – cum on face, To ejaculate on a person’s face

Cougar – a more mature woman seeking a sexual relationship with a younger man

Costumes and role play – The wearing of fantasy outfits and assuming the roles of characters, to heighten sexual excitement. Such examples of fantasy costumes can be nurse, school girl, maid, secretary and mistress

Couples – A couple in a relationship. An escort that includes “couples” in her services list means she provides a bisexual service to a couple

D

DATY – stands for Dining At The Y. Performing oral sex on a woman

DATO – see rimming

DFK – deep French kissing, tongue kissing

Dinner companion – a social escort who accompanies you to dinner. May or may not provide sexual services

Dirty talk – the practice of using graphic words to heighten sexual pleasure during intimacy

DP – double penetration. Two men penetrate one woman with vaginal and anal sex

DDP – double digit penetration. One finger in the vagina, and the other in the anus

DT – deep throat. The technique of taking the entire length of a man’s penis in one’s mouth and giving oral sex

Doggy style – a sexual position, where the man penetrates a woman from behind

E

Erotic sensual massage – a body rub that is intended to sexually stimulate the receiver

Facial  – Ejaculating on a woman’s face

FE – female ejaculation during orgasm. Also referred to as squirting

F

Fetish – a need or desire for an object, body part, or activity for sexual excitement

Filming – the film or digital recording of a sexual act

Fire and ice – giving oral sex and switching between hot tea and cold ice cube

Fisting – the penetration of the whole hand inside the vagina or anus

FK – French kissing, tongue kissing

Foot fetish – a pronounced sexual interest and gratification in feet or shoes

French – oral sex, fellatio

FS – full service. Refers to an escort providing a full sex service

G

Gagging – a sexual act of gratification where the female gags or chokes on a man’s erect penis

GFE  – girlfriend experience. A very intimate service, where the escort is more like a girlfriend. May include such services as sex, french kissing and mutual oral sex. The details of each escort’s girlfriend experience can vary, and confirmation about her services is recommended.

Greek – anal sex

GS – golden shower. Involves watching an escort urinate, or one person passing water on another

H

Happy ending  – hand job after massage

HJ – hand job. Sexually stimulating the penis by hand

I

Italian – rubbing penis between the buttocks

L

LK – light kissing, usually with a closed mouth

M

MILF – mother I’d like to fuck. Describes a sexually attractive female, usually several years older than the person using the term

MFF – male female female. A threesome with one man and two women

MMF – male male female. A threesome with two men and one woman

Multiple positions – an escort who allows you to have sex in many different styles and positions

Masturbation – sexually arousing one’s self, usually to the point of orgasm. Can be performed by use of fingers, hands, an object, or a sex toy

Mutual masturbation – escort and client sexually arousing themselves, while they voyeuristically watch each other

Mutual French – Both parties will give and reciprocate oral sex. If done at the same time, is referred to as a 69

Mutual natural French – both parties give and receive unprotected oral sex

MSOG – multiple shots on goal. An escort providing MSOG service will allow a client to orgasm multiple times

N

Natural bush – unshaven or unwaxed pubic hair

O

OWO – oral without a condom

Overnight stays – an escort who stays overnight at a client’s hotel or residence

P

Photography – the photographing of a sexual act

PNDP – Please, no dick pics

Prostate massage – the massage or stimulation of the male prostate gland by anal penetration, for sexual stimulation. Sometimes referred to as the male G-spot

PSE – porn star experience. A sexual encounter that is very similar to what you would see in a pornographic film. Involves a wide range of sexual positions and tends to be very hardcore. The details of each escort’s porn star experience can vary, and confirmation about her services is recommended.

Punter – the client or customer of an escort

R

Role play – assuming the roles of characters, to heighten sexual excitement

Rimming – licking the anus

S

Sex toy – an object or device that is primarily used to facilitate human sexual pleasure. Includes such instruments as dildos, vibrators and strap ons.

Snowballing – the act of transferring semen or cum from one person’s mouth to another

Spanish – rubbing the penis between an escorts breasts, sometimes until climax

Spanking – the act of slapping another person’s buttocks for the sexual arousal or gratification of either or both parties

Spit roasting – A woman giving oral sex to one male whilst being penetrated from behind.

Squirting – a female ejaculating fluid from her vagina during orgasm

Strap on – A dildo designed to be worn, usually with a harness, to penetrate a sexual partner

Strip tease – an erotic dance, where the escort slowly undressed for her client  in a teasing fashion

T

Tea bagging – placing a man’s balls in the mouth of a partner

Toy show – A masturbation show, by use of sex toys including vibrators

Tromboning – an act where a female kneels behind her male partner and licks his anus while masturbating his erect penis

TTM – testicular tongue massage

W

Water sports – see golden shower

WL – working lady, escort